Men As Allies in Non-Violence

   
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AN INVITATION TO MEN

We know that most of you would never beat your girlfriend, your wife, your lover or your child. We know that most of you would not force sex with a date, nor would you assault a stranger. We live and work with you. We love and respect you. You are our brothers, boyfriends, husbands, fathers, companions, friends, and lovers.
But there are men who are violent. There are some men who bring this violence into dating relationships and their families, into the workplace, into parties. These men destroy their relationships and their families, they destroy women’s ability to feel safe around men, and children learn about fear, brutality, and humiliation from them. Because their acts are so violent and so destructive, these men receive enough attention to reflect poorly on all men.
The next time you hear a man say he’s going to show her who’s boss…or you hear a joke that perpetuates a rape myth…Say something…
Say that violence against women is just plain wrong. Say that anger and aggression do not have to result in physical assault. Say that sexual arousal does not give license to rape. Say always talk things out when you have a difference with your partner. Say never punch, kick, or slap. Find your own words. Use your own style, but Say something.
And the next time you see or hear a woman in trouble, pay attention. She can’t stop violence on her own. JOIN HER.

Take The Pledge